I've heard that there is a new movie coming out in a few months. The theme revolves around how the problems a family is having is basically their own fault. I recently realized that we as people do not realized that help and advice to our personal problems is often within a family or through an organization we belong to.
Maybe it's because we don't want to share problems or questions with others? But the same problem you may be going through may have been handled by someone you refuse to seek advice from. Even when that person has offered help. It may be a question of us not trusting someone enough to seek advice or open up about an issue? Regardless, the non questions results in us losing an answer or option that could resolve our current dilemma.
I am 61 years old and have been through a myriad of experiences in my life. I consider my status as a retiree going on 6 years now with a comfortable annuity as a sign that my life has been a success. I live a comfortable life with a few luxuries and am able to travel to see some of the world. My health is good and I live a mostly stress free life. I have offered my advice on how to get to the place I am at now, but have very few takers who seek my advice. So what I do is just continue on with my life of enjoyment until someone realizes, "Hey, maybe I should ask him how to handle a situation? or "Let me ask him how he got to the point he is at now!"
When I was younger I also failed to follow the advice I'm giving above. We need to be taught to seek advice, especially within a family. Lessons learned by others can help us avoid pitfalls in our own lives.
So next time you reach a point where you need help, seek the advice of several people. Don't be your worst enemy!